Expert Panel

Expert panel: Sleep

We are often asked for advice and tips for helping a baby to settle themselves to sleep. If you need advice on getting your baby to sleep (and stay asleep) then take a look at our previously answered expert questions. If you can't find your answer there, why not ask the panel directly. Your question will no doubt help other parents struggling with sleep.

Please note questions are not answered live. If you are at all concerned about your health or your bubs contact your doctor immediately.

Questions about Sleep

Avatar Janet_78
Jane ...
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Hi, At 11 weeks of age, his sleep/settling behaviour is probably not due to teething. It could be, but is more likely due to normal developmental b...

Answered: 06 Feb 2012
Avatar Wildr...
Jane ...
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You don’t really need to use a sleeping bag. They tend to be hot over the summer months anyway unless they are made of very fine muslin or op...

Answered: 22 Jan 2012
Avatar Sedgy1
Jane ...
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Hi-5am is a little early, a more reasonable wake up time is around 6am at this age, but you can’t enforce this. There are a couple of factors...

Answered: 14 Jan 2012
Avatar coral73
Jane ...
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It can be but it really depends on how tired the baby is, when they last fed and if they are coming up due for a feed and honestly, how much stamin...

Answered: 22 Jan 2012
Avatar Raaj
Jane ...
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It could be related to the differences in time zones, however, short of not going away and quarantining yourself in the house, this is a reality. A...

Answered: 02 Jan 2012
Avatar Tazzl3s
Jane ...
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Hi, You are managing this in an ideal way, the rest is up to her. Be consistent and calm as you are being. Have you tried putting a gate across her...

Answered: 03 Dec 2011
Avatar Kimbe...
Jane ...
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It’s unlikely he will change his sleep association until you stop lying with him and breastfeeding him to sleep. You need to change what you ...

Answered: 03 Dec 2011
Avatar melly...
Jane ...
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Perhaps, but generally there is a pattern to more frequent feeds for a few days and then the baby tends to extend the time between feeds. The sure ...

Answered: 14 Jan 2012
Avatar Natal...
Jane ...
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Hi, This is a common issue in the transition phase between a cot and using a bed. The benefits of cots of course is that they keep the child in, bu...

Answered: 18 Dec 2011
Avatar Missy...
Jane ...
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As long as he is growing well, gaining around 150-200 grams per week and reaching his milestones, then it should be fine. Are you offering him both...

Answered: 05 Nov 2011
Avatar Rachb...
Jane ...
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That’s a reasonable plan, a gradual wean off a wrap so that over a week or so less of the baby is being wrapped is fine. You may find though ...

Answered: 05 Nov 2011
Avatar Jessb...
Jane ...
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It’s difficult to advise you as I’m not sure how old your baby is. If he is very young or a newborn you may find he hasn’t really...

Answered: 05 Nov 2011
Avatar sheaf
Jane ...
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Hi, It’s hard to advise you without knowing more about your situation, though you do mention a bottle. For three year olds, going to sleep wi...

Answered: 01 Nov 2011
Avatar Nstjohn
Jane ...
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Exactly what you’re trying now. Aiming not to pick him up, gently reassuring him, making sure he’s comfortable though persevering with ...

Answered: 01 Nov 2011
Avatar _Annie_
Jane ...
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Hi, Yes at seven months of age she is too old and developmentally past being wrapped/swaddled for her sleeps. She is certainly at the age where sh...

Answered: 06 Oct 2011
Avatar JAMES...
Jane ...
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Early is fine, but honestly, you don’t need to be prepared quite this early for school. At 2.5 years your boy will still be needing a day tim...

Answered: 13 Sep 2011
Avatar Sams_...
Jane ...
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Leaving her to cry at 7 weeks won’t gain much. She’s too young and her brain too immature to modify or change her behaviour as a result...

Answered: 13 Sep 2011
Avatar Thepe...
Jane ...
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That sounds fair enough to me too. Have you tried to offer him a couple of extra feeds in the late evening, keep him up for a little while in the l...

Answered: 26 Aug 2011
Avatar Rjara_
Jane ...
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By your question I think you must mean he’s going to sleep with you or on your bed through the day when he’s breastfeeding, is this rig...

Answered: 18 Aug 2011
Avatar Spec
Jane ...
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It sounds like you’re doing what you can to not reinforce his behaviour or a dependency on you to settle. Less attention can be more when tod...

Answered: 17 Aug 2011
Avatar Cinde...
Jane ...
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You need to make sure he’s thriving, gaining weight and not needing to feed overnight because he’s genuinely hungry. An average weight ...

Answered: 18 Aug 2011
Avatar Micha...
Jane ...
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You need to think about changing what you’re doing in terms of supporting her. If you do this first, then she is likely to change her expecta...

Answered: 07 Aug 2011
Avatar Deedubb
Jane ...
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At 17 months he still needs one day time sleep, generally after lunch for an hour or more. But if he’s waking overnight, and this is complete...

Answered: 07 Aug 2011
Avatar Corre...
Jane ...
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At seven months he is too old and developmentally ready to stop swaddling him. Safety sleep devices are generally not recommended either, so itR...

Answered: 07 Aug 2011
Avatar Erica...
Jane ...
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Hi, at 8 months of age he’s old enough to not need feeding overnight. He needs around 4-5 bottles from approximately 5-6 am until around 9pm ...

Answered: 30 Jul 2011
Avatar broniey
Jane ...
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Less is more when it comes to giving attention at this age, as you’re finding. If you go into him and offer short reassurance and satisfy you...

Answered: 30 Jul 2011
Avatar squazi
Jane ...
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It sounds like he is an unsettled little fellow and you’re trying everything you can to calm him. Would it be worthwhile investigating if you...

Answered: 22 Jul 2011
Avatar HLB
Jane ...
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Believe it or not, this is not an uncommon scenario. He may be getting up and lying on the floor in an active part of his sleep but is unaware that...

Answered: 14 Jul 2011
Avatar Coops...
Jane ...
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I’m not sure, perhaps she feels more secure, less open or it may be because of where the porta-cot is positioned. If it’s next to your ...

Answered: 22 Jul 2011
Avatar Lenno...
Jane ...
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He may be going through a growth spurt, which would account for his need for extra feeds and kilojoules. If this is the case you’ll probably ...

Answered: 07 Jul 2011

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