Thanks for your advice. Last night was the worst night we have had! She went to sleep at 8pm, I gave her a dreamfeed at 10:15 then she woke kicking up her legs and squirming at 12 and I put her back to sleep, she woke again at 1am and hubby put her back to sleep, 2:30 she was really distressed and screaming (not like any crying we have heard before- almost like she was in pain) so I fed her. She then slept til about 4am and I put her back to sleep and then 5:30am when I fed her, then 6:30am when she did a little projectile spew (not upset though, quite happy and playful!) so we got up for the day.
Do you think giving her extra feeds is causing her to have belly pain and wind? Will she feed if she isn't hungry?
I'm so worried I'm doing the wrong thing but not sure if it is a growth spurt as she is not seeming overly hungry in the day.
Anyone had this experience?
maybe try not giving her the dream feed at 10 and see if she sleeps through that time until 12..if so id be going to bed when she does and at least getting those first few hours in. are you burping her properly after her feeds? it cam be tempting at night to pop them straight into their bed if they fall asleep on the boob but i find they wake up a short time later with wind, so id make sure to burp her no matter what time it is.
when you give her a feed is she draining the entire breast? they can become lazy at night and fall of to sleep before theyve emptied it, so id be compressing the breast a little after your let down has eased to keep her drinking and be sure shes got her fill or shell wake up since she didnt drink enough.
well this is my experience anyway, every bub is different
smile good luck i hope she behaves for you soon xx