I dont really have anyone else to talk to...
Before my husband and i got married we were off and on because he cheated on me quite a few times..we managed to get past that but then when i was 36 wks preg with number 1 i found he had been sending and receiving inappropriate pics of another female he said it was nothing and was so sorry etc and i left that alone, now number 2 is 3mnths i have found him sending inappropriate pics again to another female again he said it was nothing just a joke. I feel as though maybe he is just doing what he pleases and knows i will give in and forgive him for what ever he does. Where is the point that enough is enough? Sorry for my vent. thanks.

You have two choices.
Realise enough should have come before you got married
Or learn to live with his cheating.
He is NOT going to change. He has NO respect nor love for you.
What he is now he will always be. Nothing is going to miraculously change.

If you stay, live with the fact he is a compulsive cheater and learn how to share him with multiple women.
Or walk away with your head held high and start over.
I'm betting you can do MUCH better than that. People don't deserve to be cheated on by their partners.

i believe you are not over reacting
and i agree with you - because you accept this kind of behaviour he will keep doing it and taking advantage of you.
i agree with skippy - you can do a lot better and be with someone who respects you.
good luck roll eyes

Big hugs to you. I'm sorry you're going throuh this. I agree with the others - you're not overreacting. It's ridiculous that he's laughing it off as a joke. Cheating is not a joke. He doesn't deserve you. Take care of yourself and your bubbas.