Over the past 4 years we have moved homes (states) 6 times (have been in current home for 2 years) for DH PhD studies. Now DH wants to move countries in late 2012 - to NZ, for 2 years, then back to NSW for a stint, then to WA or VIC for another period, then back to NSW.
I broke down today and said i am sick of moving, sick of pulling the kids out of schools, sick of having no friends because of the constant move and afer this next move i will have to leave my horse and my daughters horse behind for at least 6 years, or sell them. My life revolves around moving from place to place for HIM, Never being settled, never making friends and being part of a community sad
I dont want to move to NZ.
He got really mad and stormed out, Its all about HIM.
I am at the point of telling him to go by himself.
Am i just being selfish? should i just harden up and go with him?