My DH has decided that he would like to have a vasectomy as I have (in his words) "sacrificed enough" with the pregnancies, miscarriages, and labours/births of our children. (the largest thus far is 10lb 2oz - 4600g - natural birth)
I am happy to have my tubes tied, during a c/section, should I need one, but DH doesn't even want me to do that...
We are agreed that this child is our last - 4 is enough for us.
I have had a little pregnancy complication, and under medical advice are not supposed to be having sex until after the baby is born... so do I get my DH to get the snip while I am still preg - and cant do anything, giving him time to heal, and ensure that the procedure is effective, or do we wait until the baby is born, and we know the baby is ok, and healthy?
How long has it taken others to heal/be comfortable again?
What do I need to know in order to help DH after the procedure?
How much doest it cost?
Anything else I really need to know???
Thanks in advance fella's.