I have only just had our daughter. He did not want to be involved in the pregnancy even when we were together. Now that our daughter is here he says that he cares for all his kids and loves them, but does not want to see our daughter. I know she is only just born, but I feel like I am making all the effort to give him a relationship with his daughter. I still look after his two kids on the weekends when he works.(I class them as my step kids and also my daughter thinks of them as a brother and sister and him as a step dad.) I have no problem with looking after them on the Friday night and him getting them on Saturday, but I don't see why he can't take all the kids when he picks up his two. My eldest still wants to see him and because she never really liked to listen to him when we were together he doesn't believe that she wants to. I also feel that his two kids have a right to know their little sister and be with her whenever they want when they're with him.
My eldest daughter has nothing to do with her father (his choice not ours) and I don't want my youngest to go through the same thing.
Should I be pushing him into seeing his daughter or just back off and let him decide when he wants her (if he wants to)???