just wondering on what peoples opinions are on the following
i have a SS 6 years old and a DD 7 months old,
i have been in SS life since he was 2 and DP has him fortnightly wk ends and half of all school holidays, and everything has gone really well until i fell pregnant with DD.
SS has never been smart but since i had DD i have noticed more and more, im not sure if its my motherly instict but i believe that he is very behind other children his age. i believe that he has a developmental problem but his dad is too scared to tell his ex to get him checked out, like the time he asked her to get SS eyes checked and it took her 6 months to do it and turns out he is nearly blind. i am also very nervous about allowing him too close to DD as he has had violent tendencies and i am scared he may do something to hurt her, hence why i am scared to put her in her own room.
there is more but i would be here all night...
please help me, i am deperate for help