why has it changed so much and will it go back to normal?

hi my names carly im 19 weeks pregnant and my partner has been very distant i havent seen him in about a week and a bit im so worried that i will have to do it on my own. why does this have to happen we were happy and now i feel like he doesnt want to know me. im scared for my baby with all the stress i have at the moment how can i deal with this.

hey matie,

i cant imagine how you must be feeling at the moment being 19weeks preg and not feeling very stable with your partner... maybe you need to sit down and hav a chat about it with him and find out what his thoughts are... he could be dealing with the realization his gonna be a dad... for good or bad. unfortunatly most guys arnt as open with there emotions as females are, so we sometimes hav to use a proverbial crowbars to really understand them. please hav a chat, dont let this go on any longer if your feeling this way, you dont need any stress right now, your hormones are doing enough of that on there own:)

as for you not wanting to do this on your own, having your first baby is always scary because you dont no what to expect but have faith you will work it out... just remembeer to take one day at at time.... i no this whole baby thing seems daunting... you will pull thru tho believe me. you are a strong independant female who can handle anything...... never forget that....
(im not a crazy feminist or anything:))

hope this helps and you feel better soon

chan xo

Hi chan, sorry its taken me so long to reply couldnt figure out how to find it lol..

thanks so much for your reply though, it made me feel at ease.
im not 33weeks pregnant and we are not together he moved out however he comes around every couple of days and still treats me like his girlfriend im not sure if i should accept it or just try and keep it as friends for my own happiness. i found out im having a boy and i can't wait to hold this little bundle of joy we have created.

carly xo

if his not there 100% now
he wont be after the baby cause it will be 100% harder
its wrong if he thinks he can just come&go when suites him!

thats what im worried about. i have prepared myself to do it on my own. i have great support from family and maybe a couple of friends.

thats what im worried about. i have prepared myself to do it on my own. i have great support from family and maybe a couple of friends.

i know how you feel sad
im 23 and my fiance left me because he was a D*CK.. im here to talk to if u want hun xx

i know how you feel sad
im 23 and my fiance left me because he was a D*CK.. im here to talk to if u want hun xx

wow sorry to hear that must be hard i couldnt imagine being engaged and him leaving, i was with him for 4 years and thats hard but you move on and i am finally well at least i think i am still the thought of him being with someone else makes me sick but its obviously not meant to be..

the worst thing that gets me is that every day he calls me and we chat like nothing's different and he is here every weekend and we still spend time together like we used to and he kisses me goodbye and hello every time messes with my head alot. how am i supposed to completly move on if he still does that.

x