Grrr I'm so mad right now! I feel like just giving him the baby and going out for a few hours!! Just to have some time to myself!
All I ask is that he change one nappy occasionally! I shouldn't have to ask! He should offer to do it! She is 5 1/2 weeks old and he's changed maybe 5 nappies. Every time I ask him to do it we end up arguing and I end up changing it myself. Or offer to get up in the wee hours of the morning when she won't re-settle after her feed. He'll do that if I ask but I mean FFS! I shouldn't have to ask and when I do these things shouldn't amount to a friggin argument!! I don't like changing nappies but hey someone has to do it! I manage around 10 a day!! Just one a day is all I want him to do
I really am soooo mad! He made this baby too, yeah he does things like put the nappy bin out, empty her bath (he's never even bathed her!), cooks when I can't settle her (he doesn't seem to mind because he has a new bbq and cooks on that), and he'll do the dishes most nights, I do help when I can. Oh and he does the manly things like mow the lawn.
He must think I sit around all day doing nothing, I don't think he realises how much hard work bub can be through the day.
And on top of all this, I'm trying to organise our wedding and bub's naming which is in 10 weeks time. I sat down with him last night to discuss the ceremony, after we'd done most of the wedding bit he got up to go to the loo and never came back to dicuss things. I feel like the entire thing is being left up to me! Just some friggin support, to be beside me and agree or disagree with what I'm organising is all I want! Some input!! My mother won't help because 'I'm good at organising things and she's not' and his mum would have no idea and would suggest a million other things, plus she doesn't want to do too much because she doesn't wanna step on my mum's toes.
I've just had enough and needed to get it out before I started yelling at him!
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