Feeling isolated in CQ

My husband and I are expecting our first DD in early April. However due to an awesome work opportunity for DH we decided to make the big move from Sydney (where we both grew up and all our friends and family are) to Central QLD (Rocky to be exact).

I was so focused on the opportunity for DH to work, I completely lost sight of how this would affect me. We have been here nearly 2 months and I am feeling so isolated and alone. I don't have any friends or family up here, and the aquaintences I have made have their own families and I often feel like I'm imposing when I pop over to say hello.

I can't spend hours on the phone to our friends and family back in Sydney, because we currently only have our mobile phones (there are no physical landlines in the area we are living in) and they all work and have other commitments, so I try to keep every conversation short and sweet and let them know that everythings ok.

I suffered from depression a couple of years ago sad and am really worried that it will come back to haunt me, and I REALLY don't want this to happen as the baby's arrival is so near!

Is there anyone in Rocky that would like to strike up a friendship (boy that does sound needy doesn't it!) grin or does anyone know of any groups that exist that can start the social ball rolling?

Thanks and I hope everyone is progressing well!

Linda

Hi Linda,

I live in Vic so I can't help with any specifics but as someone who has been in a similar situation I know how you're feeling. Try talking to your child and maternal health nurse about mums groups in the area. All first time mums love to talk babies so you already have something in common. As you get to know people invite them over for 'playdates'.

Make sure your husband knows how you're feeling because you will need his support when you bring bub home. Before bub arrives it's a good idea to sort out who will do what (maybe he will be in charge of bath time) as you will need a time out at some point during the day and without close friends and family he's your support network.

If your new aquaintences offer help take it! Don't worry that you haven't known them for long

If you do feel depressed talk to someone (even call a hotline). It's nothing to be ashamed about and dealing with it is the best thing for you and your baby

Most importantly, enjoy your baby! Your life is about to change in the most amazing way. Friends will come in time so don't stress if it doesn't happen straight away.

Enjoy your pregnancy and all the best when the little one arrives!!!

Carly