Miscarriage=(

i have to wait 6mths because i had a molar preg and they need 2 make sure my hcg levels stay down before we try again. So far so good my last results from 2wks ago were 86 so the sooner theyre under 5 and stay that way the better. I hated telling everyone just go sick of repeating the whole thing im not so bad now though because its so rare to have a molar know one knew what it was. Good luck with work and hope you can try again soon

Thank you for your post Samantha I am so sorry that you have had to go through this aswell there are so many people it has happened too and such an awful thing to go through.
I am sure we will all fall pregnant again with time it sjust so hard.
I know that I am very nervous to fall again as this could happen again however I feel that I need to try straight away to make the pain get a little easier.
All I have ever wanted is to be a mum and have a happy family I have been married to my husabnd now for almost 6 months and he has been my best friend since I was 13 years old and I know we would make wonderful parents so I just cannot wait for the time that everything works out for us.
I hope that you fall again soon aswell.

I have been told to take folic acid and the vitamins by the doctor too and they advised I could try immediately which is good =)

hi sim, i know exactly how you are feeling. i suffered an early miscarriage at five to six weeks four months ago. i felt numb empty and sad for ages and i still get teary and upset when i think about it so much cause i would have been nearly six months now. i have just had surgery two weeks ago to remove two ovarian cysts which were disco ered when i had the miscarriage, and has been causing me pain since then, we did start trying again two months after but af kept coming. we are allowed to try now since the surgery, but i feel like where starting from the beginning if you know what i mean, im very scared something coud happen again but at the same time if we dont keep trying well never know if we get another chance. i believe everything happens for a reason, dont know what the reason is but there is one, it still hurts like crazy in the process. only you know whenyou are ready to give it another go, and if its meant to be it will be, just take time for yourself, and dont feel like you need to tell everyone what happened, only if you want to. anyway thats my advice, hope your feeling a bit better soon. im here if you want to chat vent winge, i understand. smile

I'm so sorry you are going through this.. I suffered a miscarriage at 11 weeks and it was quite a shock as my first pregnancy went well. After that I took it upon myself to see a gynaecologist which i'm so happy I did.. She found my thyroid levels to be very low which can cause miscarriage.. I ended up on medication and then went on to have my son.. I was absolutely terrified that it was going to happen again but through the hospital I saw a psychologist who helped me through the pregnancy. I waited 4 months before trying again. You do what you feel is right for you..big hugs to you and your partner..

im sorry to hear about your M/C. our first pregnancy also ended in a M/C, we went ffor a scan at 6 weeks and saw the heartbeat and we were also told that everything looked fine but at 11 weeks we lost it (it was a missed M/C at 8 weeks) i was only 18 and we had only been together about 3 months so it wasnt a planned pregnancy but was heartbreaking all the same so we decided to try again once we were more settled, i fell pregnant again when i was 19 and we had a healthy baby boy. 8 months later i found out i was pregnant again but lost it at 12 weeks, again it wasnt planned so we decided to wait until we got married 5 months later to try again (that was our original plan anyway) i fell pregnant about 2 weeks after the weeding and we had another healthy boy, 2 years later we had another healthy boy he was supposed to be our last. then last year we decided to try one more time, we fell pregnant but M/C @5 weeks, since this one was planned we decided to try again right away counting the M/C as the first day of the cycle (since i was only 5 weeks) but it didnt happen for us that month but i did fall pregnant the month after and im now 27 weeks with our first baby girl. so just because it has happened this time doesnt mean it will happen next time though the risk is always there as it is for anyone who falls pregnant but if you want a baby you just have to take that risk as scarey as it is.....something i tell people to hoefuly help them see it a different way is that sometimes its a bessing in disguise, if had not had those M/C's then i wouldnt have my children, i may have other children but i dont want other children only the ones i have now. good luck with trying again and i hope you have a healthy little bubbs soon.

So sorry for your loss. It is such a devastating blow. I lost 3 babies prior to DD being born. I have so far lost 3 this year, and not sure if we should just be happy with DD (which we are!, just would like another as well!) As far as trying again, your body is ready straight away, and you actually have a higher chance of conceiving again while the hormones are still high. Most Dr's will recommend one or two periods to pass to allow for grieving. You will know if you want to try again, but please consider how you will react if you lose another one.!!!