Trying to Fall Pregnant after Loss. Need help please

Hi,

I have a 22 month old(fell pregnant 1st go), and I started trying for no 2 baby in Nov 2011. I fell pregnant but miscarried end Dec (4 weeks) My hcg levels have returned to normal. I have since had 3 months with menstruation around my normal 28 days and all neg tests. But after having the miscarry I have had pigmentation appear and then lighten (like I had with my 1st born but in a different location) and each cycle I get one very sore breast which is a lot more swollen than the other, since having the miscarry I feel more tired. And this month I have been really moody. This month I have stated my period 3 days early which is not normal for me.

Can anyone offer any advice or insight into what might be going on? I keep hoping and thinking I might be pregnant each month with the swollen breasts etc (I didn't get swollen breast before the miscarry but each month I am disappointed with neg tests.
Should I go to the doc? Can they do anything to see whats happening?

I started a period 3 days ago now and did a test then which was neg?

Thanks

Hi,

I have a 22 month old(fell pregnant 1st go), and I started trying for no 2 baby in Nov 2011. I fell pregnant but miscarried end Dec (4 weeks) My hcg levels have returned to normal. I have since had 3 months with menstruation around my normal 28 days and all neg tests. But after having the miscarry I have had pigmentation appear and then lighten (like I had with my 1st born but in a different location) and each cycle I get one very sore breast which is a lot more swollen than the other, since having the miscarry I feel more tired. And this month I have been really moody. This month I have stated my period 3 days early which is not normal for me.

Can anyone offer any advice or insight into what might be going on? I keep hoping and thinking I might be pregnant each month with the swollen breasts etc (I didn't get swollen breast before the miscarry but each month I am disappointed with neg tests.
Should I go to the doc? Can they do anything to see whats happening?

I started a period 3 days ago now and did a test then which was neg?

Thanks

So sry for ur loss............Do u no for sure ur HCG is back to zero? did they monitor them until zero?

After a MC our bodies r still over the place nd can change our normal cycle or even symptoms so I wouldn't b to concerned over the different symptoms u r experiencing.

Thank you,

The dr did a blood test to confirm the hcg levels were back to 0 1 week after.

Sorry for you loss.

I've had 2 miscarriages now and before the first one I had a normal 28 day cycle and never had swollen/sore breasts before AF. But now my cycle is 31-33days and extremely sore breasts 7 days before AF. I asked my dr regarding it and he kind of ignored what I said like I was being silly. I am the same as well with thinking/hoping every month I'll be pregnant but still no luck.

Hope you get things sorted out soon. Ox

Hi, sorry for your loss.

I have had one healthy pregnancy resulting in a beautiful healthy boy but I am now going through my second miscarriage. All I could suggest is to go see a Dr. No one knows your body like you do and if you feel like something isn't right you should trust your instincts. I know everyone says there really isn't anything I could have done to stop this miscarriage - but I knew that my cycle wasn't right for the last few months before I fell pregnant - I obviously have some kind of hormonal imbalance. If I had a blood test to check my hormones to see what my body was doing, maybe I could have prevented it or maybe I just wouldn't blame myself so much because I would know I did what I could.

I hope everything works out for you and you get pregnant with a healthy baby soon.

Thank you for sharing. It helps to know some of us go through this, and that we can all share and offer each other advice. Family and Friends that haven't experienced problems with conceiving just sometimes don't understand and can't really help. So it's great to have this forum so we can support each other with our problems smile

I went to Dr today he has taken bloods to check all levels and hormones etc and sent me for an ultrasound tomorrow, hope everything will be all normal, and finger crossed I might be +.

Good luck! I hope everything works out well! smile

Well all the results are back, all tests were normal. I have a trans vaginal ultrasound which showed a cyst on my right ovary. The dr believes that is fine and nothing to worry about. I had light bleeding for 5 days before the ultrasound and since the US I have started heavy bleeding now day 6? I normally have period for 5 to 6 days. The test said I was Neg for preg, but they advised me to get preg test in 10days time.
Who knows whats going on? Not me:P At least nothing is wrong. But I have no idea why my body is showing symptoms of preg.