help... PLEASE

I am on and off this forum but still TTC.

I am getting really frustrated, we started our TTC journey last October and I am gutted we are still here.

I am 26 years old and I was pregnant at 19 but chose a termination due to life circumstances, I always had a regular cycle but after my termination I was always on the OCP despite being between partners. Now I am finding my cycles are long, gone from between 35-58 days for the last 5 months being off the pill.

I worry so much that something has happened between then and now that has reduced my fertility. I got pregnant off one silly mistake and now I cant. I would absolutely hate myself if I couldn't now, its always something I worried about when making that termination decision but now my worries are keeping me awake at night.

I know there are so many knowledgeable women on this site. I am in NZ and need some help or reassurance. We get ingrained as women that one mistake will get ou pregant and that happened to me but now I am trying and still trying.

I am on Dell Purcells vitamin concotion and have had one miscarriage last month. Please can someone give advice or where to go next. I am wanting a little one so much!!

Hi!!

So sorry that you are going through this...I think you just need to be patient (easier said than done!!) and I'm sure your little one will come when he/she is ready, suck I know that it hasnt happened already but it will smile

Good luck!!

I agree with PP, I have read that it can take atleast 6months for your body to go back to normal after coming off the pill (depending on how long you were on for etc)
have you gone to the Dr for a check - bloods etc, if not that might come up with something.
I'm not expert as I haven't experienced it but I think you can develop PCOS, and I think that gives you long cycles (someone else will be able to shed more light on it though)
Good luck

I'm sorry you're going throught this! GBH's.

Have you tried acupuncture? Some specialise in fertility and I know when I saw one he was able to regulate my cycles. He also had me begin to chart my basal body temps so if you're not already doing this check out fertility friend online and start! (It's free for basic membership).

Apart from that I read a cup of green tea daily had success in a study helping women become pregnant.

And are you taking evening primrose oil? Take from AF to ovulation to help with CM production.

HTH's

x