Totally agree with all of the above. I think in saying we're trying to relax about it all, is actually making me more consciously aware that I'm trying not to think about it, but it's all I can think about!!!!
We've been married for almost a year now, and it just seem like that natural progression to start trying. Once you've been together with someone for a while the first question is "when are you guys going to get married?". Then when you get married- 'when are you guys going to have a baby?"
I supposed realistically, I know ttc for the first time, on your first cycle, can be difficult (not saying that it doesn't happen). But I guess all those times you were on the pill or using other forms of contraception, it fooled you into believing that it can only take 'just that one time', so we better be careful as were not ready yet. You know what i mean?
I guess what I'm trying to say is, when you want something to happen and you're that 'get out there and grab it by the balls' kinda person, it kind of knocks you for six really as some plans don't pan out the way you intended. It's totally out of your control and really a mix of good timing, a bit of chance and luck on your side
End my frustrated rant. smile