No Baby Daddy :-(

Before I overreact, I must say we are both real young so it's a little understandable. He's just turned 17 in July and I turned 19 in May. But to be fair, he is quit mature, he left school this year and works at a glass company(currently working on his apprentaship) he also lives in a small house infront of his parents so he's pretty much an adult only..because his parents didn't support me being pregnant he doesn't either, they want him to put work before anything else.

But I'm having a son and it's sad because he'll probably have no one to look upto (Did I mention he refuses to see him and sign the birth cert?) until I find a new partner which probably won't be for a couple of years considering my situation.

So yeah, is anyone as hurt as I am? Would make me feel a bit better to relate to someone/people.

sorry not in your situation but wanted to say you never know he may change his mind as the pregnancy progresses and when your little man enters the world. and he may be there to support you in the end

not in your situation either, but kia kaha , at the end of the day it will be his and his families loss not yours and babys, and just because they choose not to accept it doesnt mean this situation doesnt exist, i wonder if he doesnt wanna sign so he doesnt have to pay child support, or that he may have doubts about paternity, hang in there

sorry not in your situation but wanted to say you never know he may change his mind as the pregnancy progresses and when your little man enters the world. and he may be there to support you in the end

True, and I get told that alot. But I don't want no last minute dad, he's already kicked me out of his life and I've basically supported myself. Used my saving to get everything (car seat, pram, cot clothes etc) and...I'll just feel used if he changes his mind now, only wanting to attend the good parts.

sorry not in your situation but wanted to say you never know he may change his mind as the pregnancy progresses and when your little man enters the world. and he may be there to support you in the end

Couldnt have said it better.... babies r so precious and he will be his little man! might be surprised in the future just give it time!!
or he might realise too late when u move on and he might realise more so due to jealousy of another man being a father figure... I hear about that with other ppls stories.

not in your situation either, but kia kaha , at the end of the day it will be his and his families loss not yours and babys, and just because they choose not to accept it doesnt mean this situation doesnt exist, i wonder if he doesnt wanna sign so he doesnt have to pay child support, or that he may have doubts about paternity, hang in there

Thank you smile I think it may be a child support thing? We lost it to each other and haven't had sex with anyone else, well I haven't..

Couldnt have said it better.... babies r so precious and he will be his little man! might be surprised in the future just give it time!!
or he might realise too late when u move on and he might realise more so due to jealousy of another man being a father figure... I hear about that with other ppls stories.

SOOOOO TRUE, so very very true, which is what I hope to happen, not for the whole jealousy thing but because I want him to know that he made the biggest mistake ever. It also hurts still that I still consider him to be my definition of "love".

SOOOOO TRUE, so very very true, which is what I hope to happen, not for the whole jealousy thing but because I want him to know that he made the biggest mistake ever. It also hurts still that I still consider him to be my definition of "love".

Well you never know if u want to move on there maybe some one out there that will treat u exactly the way u want to be treated I know a lady that met someone when she was preggers with #2 from her ex hubby .....he left her bcos he didnt want ne more kids ....he only wanted the one.

Anyhow the new man adopted the child as his own later on and they had another child of their own and they r married also... so u dont know what the future holds for u anyhow.

Well you never know if u want to move on there maybe some one out there that will treat u exactly the way u want to be treated I know a lady that met someone when she was preggers with #2 from her ex hubby .....he left her bcos he didnt want ne more kids ....he only wanted the one... and he adopted the child as his own later on and they had another child of their own and they r married also... so u dont know what the future hold for u anyhow.

that is such an inspiring story. i always thought of my older sister story who her baby's dad was involved up until my nephew was 1 and then he left. And she's isn't able to keep a stable relationship but I admired that she could still be able to have one with her partners aware that she had a kid. Bu adoption would be so cool if I could find someone right for me and the baby..

that is such an inspiring story. i always thought of my older sister story who her baby's dad was involved up until my nephew was 1 and then he left. And she's isn't able to keep a stable relationship but I admired that she could still be able to have one with her partners aware that she had a kid. Bu adoption would be so cool if I could find someone right for me and the baby..

Glad that story inspired u grin. There r wonderful men out there and just wanted u to know it grin and not to feel down if things dont work out.

Glad that story inspired u grin. There r wonderful men out there and just wanted u to know it grin and not to feel down if things dont work out.

yes i agree with this also as my friend was in the same situation she went from being a lonely unstable strong single mother to the most happiest ive ever seen her because her new man loves her 4 her and loves her son as if his own, only u will know the right decision to make when your baby is born

yes i agree with this also as my friend was in the same situation she went from being a lonely unstable strong single mother to the most happiest ive ever seen her because her new man loves her 4 her and loves her son as if his own, only u will know the right decision to make when your baby is born

It's cool that everyone kind of knows what I'm going through without going through it. I like these moving on stories and the fact that these independent moms were able to find new more loving men...it makes me smile smile hopefully throughout the whole of birth? Who's with me when I say mood swings much? Haha.