Scared to have sex

I'm currently 35 weeks pregnant and have been took the whole by doctors that I'll have still baby early as I had my first at 34 weeks. To add to it baby dropped at 27 weeks. I've heard a lot of people say that sex bring on the baby so I'm a bit scared but mostly worried about having sex with my partner as I don't want this baby to come too early like our first did.
My partner doesn't seem to understand just seeing it as me pushing him away and keeps asking me if I'm having an affair. Am I over reacting?

You're not over reacting- he is! I don't blame you for being concerned, you right to be as it can bring on
labour as you know. He just needs to try and be a bit more understanding- seriously it's not that long to wait and it's his baby too so he needs to look after bubbas best interests too wink

I suppose you could do other "stuff" if you felt comfortable but even nipple stimulation could bring it on so maybe he just needs to work something else out for the next 4 or so weeks wink

no id prob feel the same way in your situation, as it turnd out i had 3 normal pregs with no risk factor but didnt feel like sex anyway! DH didnt get any for a got 10months poor guy lol

it can bring on labour, and is one of the few 'methods of inducing labour at home' that is actually proven to a degree, progesterone exsists in ejactulate and can ripen the cervix. so id be telling hubby that and tell him to stop being foolish..an affair? seriously lol. you can always do other things as Tallulahbelle said wink