we were together for 3 years and had been living together for a little over a year. i have a 5 year old from a previous relationship. My ex partner was and still is amazing with her.
i recently came home from work for him to tell me that he wasnt inlove with me anymore. After we had been saving to buy a house and having unprotected sex with in our minds that if i got pregnant it wouldnt be such a bad thing.
we were still living together for a month aftyer we broke up and like any person still madly inlove with there ex i tried everything possible to see that he does love me.
A week or so after he moved out i found out that i was 5 weeks pregnant, after calling my ex to tell him he told me he wanted nothing to do with it and i was to tell people it wasnt his and i was to do everything possible to keep it from his family.
he came to my first scan but as soon as we got in the car told me it confirmed it for me that he wanted nothing to do with it.
we have recently started talking and seeing each other again and he says that he loves me but everytime i bring the baby up he goes cold and distant. i asked him to come to my 12 week scan in a few weeks and his answer was maybe.
i still love him even though i hate what he does to me.
please help ladies. i really dont know if i should just give up or if i should just see what he decides to do.
do u think he wants anything to do with us? or is he just after sex?
im so confused