Hi There
Hematomas suck and there is not enough info about them and most doctors/midwifes dont know enough about them either so thought I would share my story... Sorry if its abit long and for my spelling ha ha.
I started bleeding at 6weeks with DS2, went and had a scan which found a small hematoma - unfortunately for me as I had previously had a miscariage 2 months prior my midwife and A&E doctors assumed I would have another one and that there was nothing I could or shouldn't do that would make any difference.
Well my bleeding got alot worse, I was regularly passing clots the size of my palm, bleeding all shades of red and so heavily that i'm sure I kept the people who make Libra pads in business. I basically didn't have a day where I wasn't bleeding, I stopped going to A&E and talking to my midwife about it coz I was so over them saying 'you'll probably just have another miscarriage - theres nothing you can do' (I was having 2 weekly scans so they knew that the hematoma was growing but for some reason were totally focused on the whole miscarriage thing).
Luckily for me I had my 12week nuchal scan with an amazing ob who knew all about hematomas she told me that the only time I should be getting out of bed was to go to the toilet (as it was soooo large by that point). As far as the nuchal scan goes your hematoma wont make any difference to that but my scan showed that my placenta had started separating because of the size of the hematoma. The scarey thing is that had I kept taking the advice I was previously given I would have lost my baby. However, I switched to the ob who did my nuchal scan, I stopped lifting DS1, stopped vaccumming, anything that engaged my core and rested as much as I could.
The good news is that just by doing such a simple thing as resting my hematoma got smaller and eventually at 24weeks it had gone. For me, the damage had already been done to my placenta and to the insertion point of the umbilical cord (sp?), so ended up in hospital with more bleeding and threatened preterm labour at 28weeks but managed to hang on till 33weeks when my son couldn't wait any longer (and would have been in trouble if he had as my placenta was in terrible shape). So to end a very loooong story I had a terrible pregancy as a result of my hematoma but had a wonderful outcome - so it is possible.
I hope all goes well for you, rest as much as you can and dont do any lifting.
xx
