Hi

DS2 is going to be 4yrs old in early March and he just REFUSES to do poo on the toilet. He has been doing wee's no problem from about 3yrs old.
He is still not toilet trained over night yet, so he will either do poo in morning when he first gets up or he will wait until i put his nappy on at night, sometimes he will ask me to put his nappy on during the day if he can't hang on anymore.
I have tried reward charts and special treats/toys if he will use the toilet, but he just tells me he does'nt want his new toys/treats and if i don't put his nappy on he will just do poo in his jocks.
I get a million and one reasons why he won't sit on the toilet, but i think that he might actually be scared of sitting on it. I have tried different toilet seats but nothing seems to make a difference.
He has just started kindy this year and i really want to get this sorted out, so then i can move on to night time toilet training
If any one has any ideas that would be fantastic,

thanks