Help ladies!! My DD1 has just turned 3. She has been great with going to the toilet. Wee and poos. Lately she has not wanted to poo, it is becoming very traumatic as I almost have to hold her on there so she will go. She holds on until she it becomes so uncomfortable. She tells me she needs to poo and then I take her in to the toilet and she sits on there for barely 1 sec and says she can't and gets off.

She isn't constipated as she doesn't even try to go. But when she does it is the wolds biggest poo as she has held onto it for days.

I have asked her about it and she says she is scared and when I ask why she says because they are brown lol. It funny but I can't really help her with the colour of it. smile I have just started using stickers and rewards again but hasn't really helped.

She has started going backwards with wees to now. I don't know what to do. Nothing has changed. Please any ideas are appreciated. I don't want her to end up with constipation and then it being even more traumatic.

Thanks.