Ok so let me start me and my ex were together for 5 half years last year she cheated fell pregnant to another guy but we decided to stay together for my daughters sake.
we were living in sydney then in may 2011 she went to griffith NSW she said she would be there for 3 weeks then i can come and pick my daughter up she kept hold it off then ended up in Robinvale Victoria she was then saying she will come back up soon few weeks later she moved herself and my daughter to Mildura Victoria (so much moving around for a young child)and from there she was back and forth between robinvale and mildura.Here with me she was in a stable place never being moved around and with a school up the end of my street where she was going to attend next year.
it has been about 4 months and i still havent seen my daughter, she is refusing to let me see her and now refusing to let me talk to her unless i msg text her first beoore i call ( i text first still no answer), for a while she wouldnt tell me where her and my daughter were.3 weeks ago my father passed away at 57and he treated my daughter like it was his own and everyday he would ask me bring my princess up i want her here she didnt even get to say goodbye coz my ex wanted to be spitfull and not let my daughter attend his funeral which hurt me my family and alot of people really bad knwoing how close my daughter and my father were.
She goes out partys and drinks and leaves my daughter with someone i dont know who but im pretty sure its with her best friend who is a heavy drug taker (which i dont know how to prove)
Now to the horrible part my ex's mother has been giving my daughter KAVA dont know if anyone will know what that is but its a FIJIAN alcahol/drug (shes a 4 year old child been given something 100x worse than soft drinks)
What makes me very paraniod is my ex had a baby to a previous relationship she left her baby in the care of a man she was stayting with who was overly drunk got home and found the baby in bathtub with the babysitter sleeping in the bath with her, basciclly i dont want anything like that to happen to my daughter.
My daughter being in a horrible envionment like the places where she stays where girls as young as 9 are drinking smoking and seeing boys doing well things young girs shouldnt be doing i dont want my dauther exposed to things like that. she is constantly around alcahol her mother drinks her nan and pop on my ex's side all drink more than they can handle where as me i never have drank and alcahol pretty much dosnt exist in my family
my ex recently got her 4 year immunisation needles which were 7 months late (im still questioning if she has done it or not)
My ex puts things into my daughter head for eg, she told my daughter i kicked her out , she got her daughter to say to me piss off dad i hate you, telling my daughter to say stuff like you will never find us dad, she bribes her with toys and makeup only if she does what my ex says , My daughter went to tell me where she was my ex turned around and smacked her to stop her from telling me where they were.
the constant swearing my ex says to my daughter like when im on the fone to my daughter you can hear my ex saying "hurry and get the F%*& off the fone" or to my daughter "here come talk to this C^&T" .
Im getting really fed up with it and with the stress of my dads passing away leaving behind 7 very young children as young a 6 and me doing all i can to make sure they are all ok , losing my job, and now my ex doing all this to me with me and my daughter its starting to take its toll and i can see myself being hospitalised very soon.
I know its a very long story (theres alot more) but i really need adivice as it really hard trying to keep up with everything i will contact legal aid on monday hopefully i qualify , i jut wanted to know if any other fathers have been through the same as what im going through,
thanks everyone and im sorry if i ranted on.