Feeling your partners cheating

How many of you had a 'feeling' or intuition that your partner is cheating, and it has been true? How'd you find out? Any of you wrong?

Yes I've had the feeling but looking at it now it was probably more insecurity on my part than anything based on facts or signs. I don't think DH would but everyone's human I suppose!

Is everything ok? Was this a random question or are you worried? I hope it was just a random question x

Whole bunch of crap that's happened in the past, but recently more stuff. Don't know if it's just me as I've just had our 3rd baby and all (hormones). But after talking with friends and all, they feel he's being inappropriate (Facebook mostly), and he's super secretive with his phone, iPad and laptop. Walks out of the room to take calls, has pass words on laptop and ipad and tilts the screen so I can't see when I walk in the room. Fibbed to me tonight about when he had heard from this (girl) friend he has recently become reacquainted with on fb (saw a missed call from her a couple of days ago). Wish he wouldn't lie and if he is just friends with people why lie? It's al doing my head in...

Hi sorry to say but yes I think your partner is doing something that he should not be doing. Just cause u have have his passwords etc do not safe guard anything!, for eg...... If he wants to cheat yep make up a new Facebook account and password etc, or a hotmail account that u don't know about!!! Be smart girls!!! It's just too easy for them now,,

I had the same issue with my husband. He never wanted me to look at his email etc!!! Cause he was on adult friend finder ( sex site) well if they is nothing to hide then they will show u everything!! I have learnt the hard way. Another thing that I have learnt is that u can go In private on the net so they cannot track what they do on the net sooooo there is no way u an track what they are up too!!! I was lucky cause my husband wasnfucking dumb!!! He was going on web cam with another girl fr a while and having an online affair told her that he loved her!!! Wtf!!!! Any ways I had no idea that he was doing this for ages,, untill the stupid bitch tried to add him on Facebook and I caught on! I asked questions to who was this person!! He denied it for a year and when I said that I had spoken to her on Facebook etc!! He finally admitted to if, really I had known for a year, called instinct but never had the evidence. Bt hell yeah I was right!! What I trying to say if u know something is wrong then yep for sure something is up!! A women intuition is always right!! Don't learn the hard way like I did!

Yes I've had the feeling but looking at it now it was probably more insecurity on my part than anything based on facts or signs. I don't think DH would but everyone's human I suppose!

Is everything ok? Was this a random question or are you worried? I hope it was just a random question x

Im the same as above .... and with depression insecurity is multiplied and things u see on tv get to u and think omg! when u think about all the horrible stds and I worry cos we r all perfect as we are and lucky because of that but if someone cheats that cood all change and that terrifies me.

Whole bunch of crap that's happened in the past, but recently more stuff. Don't know if it's just me as I've just had our 3rd baby and all (hormones). But after talking with friends and all, they feel he's being inappropriate (Facebook mostly), and he's super secretive with his phone, iPad and laptop. Walks out of the room to take calls, has pass words on laptop and ipad and tilts the screen so I can't see when I walk in the room. Fibbed to me tonight about when he had heard from this (girl) friend he has recently become reacquainted with on fb (saw a missed call from her a couple of days ago). Wish he wouldn't lie and if he is just friends with people why lie? It's al doing my head in...

What is the update on this story?

I confronted him on new years day and said I wanted to see his phone. He effed around in the kitchen saying just wait til I make these milkshakes for the kids, and his phone was on the mantle between the kitchen and lounge. Anywhoo, I had to pee, when I came out the phone was gone and he's out at his car. Got his laptop and had to 'back it up' before I could look at it. Anyways I went mental and said "everything I wanted to see is probably gone now". So he was all "oh you don't want to see it now, fine!". And I never did see it. We were hanging on by a thread at this stage and I had asked him to find a marriage counselor. On Friday the 13th of Jan the kids opened a wok cc statement of his and there was a motel room and petrol charge for the 27th of dec. I confronted him and he reckons she is having marriage troubles and he paid for the room over the ph. And then I asked about the petrol and he bumbled on about a worker needing petrol, blah, blah, blah... Can't trust a word he says. I also found he kept his 5k bonus cheque all for himself, lied about who paid for a gym (so he can get all buff) and all this other stuff. I asked him to leave, he did, and now he is being an arse. Giving me *** about everything. So that's the update....

Sounds like you're waaaaay better off without him!
Are you enjoying your life more now?

In one way, I know what I've got and where it is. And I don't have that churning anxious/suspicious feeling in my stomach anymore. But now, I hate not having my older two, separating them from the baby.
And he is constantly harassing me with texts, etc... He comes to the house and keeps taking stuff, saying " I told you I was coming, etc...". It must be stressing me as I had an attack of bells palsy and half my face went paralyzed. He told me this weekend he didn't want the kids as he had stuff to do, which apparently was having his brother at his house on fri, then he says he was in eildon on sat. Then changes his mind and picked them up after lunch. He also went away over Easter, didn't see the kids till the mon. And didn't tell me he was going away and wouldn't be contactable by ph.
I e-mail him a month of the calendar with all our movements (kinder, appt's, etc...) and I put on there a month in advance I want to go away at the end of may, could he please have the older two for the fri & sat? And I had arranged for the baby to be cared for by my parents. Well he sends me a snarky txt. Why is he allowed to have a life and I'm not?
And the last couple of days he's been harassing me about a sander apparently my dad has of his??? He wants $200 and doesn't want the sander back. I know nothing about it, I told him to talk to my dad about it and he abused me and hung up on me then sent me a *** text... Just can't see and end to the idiocy at the mo, so don't know....
Wish he would find someone else so he could leave me the hell alone...

In one way, I know what I've got and where it is. And I don't have that churning anxious/suspicious feeling in my stomach anymore. But now, I hate not having my older two, separating them from the baby.
And he is constantly harassing me with texts, etc... He comes to the house and keeps taking stuff, saying " I told you I was coming, etc...". It must be stressing me as I had an attack of bells palsy and half my face went paralyzed. He told me this weekend he didn't want the kids as he had stuff to do, which apparently was having his brother at his house on fri, then he says he was in eildon on sat. Then changes his mind and picked them up after lunch. He also went away over Easter, didn't see the kids till the mon. And didn't tell me he was going away and wouldn't be contactable by ph.
I e-mail him a month of the calendar with all our movements (kinder, appt's, etc...) and I put on there a month in advance I want to go away at the end of may, could he please have the older two for the fri & sat? And I had arranged for the baby to be cared for by my parents. Well he sends me a snarky txt. Why is he allowed to have a life and I'm not?
And the last couple of days he's been harassing me about a sander apparently my dad has of his??? He wants $200 and doesn't want the sander back. I know nothing about it, I told him to talk to my dad about it and he abused me and hung up on me then sent me a *** text... Just can't see and end to the idiocy at the mo, so don't know....
Wish he would find someone else so he could leave me the hell alone...

Wow alot went on.
It really does sound like ur better off especially mentally.
This sounds like it is still painful for u tho.

I'm sorry he was untrustworthy and he is now being difficult- that's so unfair sad it does sound like you are better off- he sounds like a troublemaker!

Try not to stress, if he keeps carrying on with the texts and dropping by to pick stuff up etc.. Maybe go through a legal team so he can't contact you direct and you can move forward to better things and you won't need to deal with his crap anymore x

Just wanted to say you much better off on your own,even though Im sure you still have feeling for the prick lol.You will feel better in time and no doubt hel meet some other lady how long she puts up with his childish ways is anyones guess.Chin up you sound lovely and its his loss