When i did see her i realised her daughter didnt look like my partner at all. which is good
The only problem i have now is he had no idea i saw her cause i knew he would go off so befor i could explain to him proporlyy why i saw her he went thru my phone and read the msg i sent to a friend about it.
He got p!$$3d off and asked why i didnt tell him that day and because that night i was going to tell him DS was in hospital i didnt think it was the right time to talk about it and then last night he didnt go to bed and i was going to discuss it then with him
I dont know if hes mor annoyed cause i didnt tell him or because i saw her i have good reason for both nut he isnt talking to me now
the resaon for me seing her was to get it out of my head that her daughter is his so im not constantly thinking about it
and the reason i didnt tell him straight away is because DS was in hospital and i was not going to talk about that while he was sic in hospital
sorry about the long story
Do you think i did the right thing ? And how can i make him understand why i did what i did ?