is it over ?

DP and i are no longer living together after another argument i had enough i left and went to my mums now im living at my mums with our 4 month old son im so confussed he said we are still together but living seperatly and not seeing other people so now im in the prosess of looking for a unit for DS and myself but being a single 20yr old female im thinking its going to be pretty hard to find a place and i need one ASAP i still really love him and want things to work but i dont know any more im hurt confussed and really upset.

theres probly no point to this post but i had to get it out sad sad

Sorry about that. Did he say anything about working it out in future? How does the still together, living separately thing work? I know how crap it is, maybe some time apart might make everyone see thing a little clearer. Don't know about the living arrangements... Big hugs.

Sorry to hear that sad I thought things were looking up as you planned to move out together. Do you think its possible he just doesnt want to move out of his parents house?

Big hugs hun..hope it all works out for you and your ds sake smile

Sorry to hear hun sad. Keep your head up and everything will turn out OK XX

Oh you poor thing. I've read a couple of your posts before and was so happy to see you might have worked things out.
Does he have a problem with stepping up to responsibilities? I don't really understand how you can be a family with him living with his parents and you alone with your DS in a unit? You will be doing all the work and him just swanning in and out when it suits him sad
Sorry if this is harsh but if I were you I would walk away from this guy. I know you love him but sometimes love isn't enough, especially when kids are concerned. Its easy to leave and come back and leave and come back now when you argue but what happens when your DS is a little boy and can understand whats going on?
GBH. I hope things work out for you.

I agree! As much as you might still love him, it is very unfair of him to say that you are still together but not living together. How is he then taking on responsibilities of a father? Sounds like he's leaving the hard work to you, and living the easy life by himself.
I feel for you but you need to put yourself and your child first, its up to him whether he wants to be a part of it.
I hope you can sort something out xx