Dp had fallen asleep on the couch but didn't get up to the sound of him crying. I got up, was rushing to get a bottle ready and go to the toilet before I got him up while dp slowly gets off the couch, gets himself a glass of water & takes himself to bed with no offer of help. It makes me so angry. He works a lot of hours but then on his days off sleeps for half the day & never let's me sleep in. He's never interested in doing things with us on his days off unless I tell him we have to be somewhere.
Then there's the bigger problem. Money! I don't know where it all goes.
Recently his mum had to bail him out of some old credit card debt that was with a collection agency & he wasn't paying so they were going to take him to court. I didn't even know about the debt. I live on so little & he just seems to spend without caring. Even what happened didn't change that. Now I control all the money, move it to different accounts and leave him with money to spend. He spends it then gets more from his mum! If I ask about it he comes up with an excuse why he needed money from her but the reasons don't add up! Plus why doesn't he tell me he needs money for something so I can move it back for him? I'm pretty sure it's another sign the reasons for needing it are lies!
I don't know what to d anymore. The last week he took $100 cash out, then I left another $140 for him and a couple of days later he gets $150 from his mum and doesn't get home til 4:30am! I didn't say anything because the last time I asked about money from his mum he said he didn't tell me coz he hadnt seen me yet but now, almost a week after this time, not a word about it.
I have a new lease for our unit here waiting to be signed. I kee putting it off. I just don't know if I can do it any more.
Sorry this is so long but need to get it off my chest & ds is showing no sign of going back to sleep!