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Great Easter I'm having so far :( Rss

So my partner has been ignoring me and isn't speaking to me he told me last night he wants to move and not see baby and just pay child support sad

I'm 31 weeks pregnant and it's hard to take that stuff on board.....


I don't want to stress out my baby and I'm pretty scared of doing things on my own especially when you have been with this person for 4 years and all of a sudden he comes out with this.....

Any advise?
wow, what a blow. You poor thing sad
Has he been acting this way for a while? Do you think he is just afraid of the responsibility of being a parent he is freaking out and running away?
Could he need a bit of time to sort his head out? Still no excuse for that kind of behaviour though...

I know lots of awesome single mums, and I wont lie it is likely to be extremely hard but you may be better off without this person in your life if that is how he chooses to treat you and your unborn child.

Oh my I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this! It is the last thing you need right now and what bad timing!

I just want to tell you that it is possible to do it on your own. I am raising my daughter on my own and you know what it is no where near as hard as I thought it would be. Yes it is exhausting and you get no time to yourself but you can do it! Surround yourself with people that love you and will be able to help you out in the first few weeks.

Stay strong.
I know this is awful, and you're feeling awful. But, I just separated from my husband, and the back and forth, emotional abuse, financial misappropriation, lying, gossiping, etc... is awful. Quite frankly I would be happy if I could parent on my own with the financial support.... Probably not what you want to hear right now.... And I wish he did want to be a great father/partner, but if he's told you this isn't what he wants, maybe listen. I wish my ex-husband hadn't of wasted my time because settling down and having a family is the 'expected' thing to do...
Happy Easter anyhow, and in time you will feel great again, with your beautiful child.
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