Rant Alert.

Just a bit of background. My DP has been away since the start of jan on and off. He went away for "boys trip" for 4 nights, went away for a night with work beautiful hotel dinner paid for drinks etc all on the work card.

Last weekend he went out for " work mate drinks" getting home at 1:30am.
The next night went into the city with mates for drinks, i had to stay home with the kids as we couldnt getr a baby sitter, he got home at 1am again.

So tonight we both got an invite to go to the local RSL for a few drinks with frineds the same group he went out with last weekend. I asked if i could go instead because i havent been out at all in 9 weeks and we couldnt get a baby sitter.

I got told i was being unfair and he is going as i was at the hairdressers this morn and then a dr appointment.

Im annoyed as i would love to have a wine or 2 and catch up with our group of friends i havent seen in ages. am i being a cow?

Rant Alert.

Just a bit of background. My DP has been away since the start of jan on and off. He went away for "boys trip" for 4 nights, went away for a night with work beautiful hotel dinner paid for drinks etc all on the work card.

Last weekend he went out for " work mate drinks" getting home at 1:30am.
The next night went into the city with mates for drinks, i had to stay home with the kids as we couldnt getr a baby sitter, he got home at 1am again.

So tonight we both got an invite to go to the local RSL for a few drinks with frineds the same group he went out with last weekend. I asked if i could go instead because i havent been out at all in 9 weeks and we couldnt get a baby sitter.

I got told i was being unfair and he is going as i was at the hairdressers this morn and then a dr appointment.

Im annoyed as i would love to have a wine or 2 and catch up with our group of friends i havent seen in ages. am i being a cow?

forgot to add that he will be going out again on the 25th for our friends birthday which i will again miss because his parents wont babysit

No way!!

Firstly, doctors appointments dont count as 'doing something for yourself'

Second, I'd be reminding him how many times he's been out over the past several weeks & you have stayed home with the kids. Tell him you're going, and if he wants to go he'll need to find a babysitter wink You have a life other than being at home, and you would like to live that life from time to time.

Men just dont get it sometimes roll eyes

You are not being a bitch! I would be pi@@ed if that happened to me. Who gives a crap if you went to the hairdresser and the Dr, that doesn't count as going out. Firstly going to a hairdresser is to maintain your personal hygiene and going to a Dr is for your health, I see nothing sociable or relaxing about that. Maybe you should organise a night out and leave him at home!

You are not being a cow. You have alrights to want a night out with friends and have time to yourself.

He being really selfish and needs a good kick up the bum. He needs to stay home spend some time with his kids and you get time away.

I would be pissd if my DH did that.
I would organise something with some girl friends and say to DH right I'm going out this night your on child duty, if you want to go out that's fine but you sort out a baby sitter.

No you are not being a bitch, he is being unfair! You have just as much as a right as he does to go out with your friends. I'd be having words with him and would let him know how unhappy you are with him.

I would be pissd if my DH did that.
I would organise something with some girl friends and say to DH right I'm going out this night your on child duty, if you want to go out that's fine but you sort out a baby sitter.

I would do exactly as Nadz said.

Thanks Ladies!

I feel better and decided i would not crack a stink, i jut got an invite to a gfs hens night on the 24th so i will be writing all these times down and showing them to him when he protests about having to have the kids on my night out. Hens night will be the perfect time to let my hair down lol

Good on you girl.
I was gonna say the same thing all the other ladies said, you need some time to be you for a change.
My fiance would never do that, if anything he tells me to go out and he'll look after the baby.
On saying that my ex did exactly what your partner is doing, thinking his social life was more important.
I hope you have a fantastic time at the hens.