Somethings that my family say really get under my skin. Here's some common ones.
- Nanna "it doesn't take long to do a few dishes luv"
NO, you're right it doesn't. But it does take a long time to wash a stack of dishes (I usually have to refill the sink twice sometimes more) and when you've also got to hang the washing, put another load on, sweep/vacuum, clean up after the last meal, feed the child without forgetting yourself, pick up all the toys, clean the sliding door because dd and friends decided to lick it and get yourself dressed etc.
-mother, father, Nanna "oh you'll have one of each then you dont need anymore kids"
Nobody NEEDS kids or a certain amount there of. But if I want a hundred children and can support them, I freaking well will! Oh and btw dies that mean if I have another girl you'll be ok with me having more children until I get a boy?
-family members who aren't close enough to see dd more than once a month "why can't I give her a chocolate? Dont you allow treats? You're a mean mummy not giving her cake" (there are more all junk food related)
DD HAS A NUT ALLERGY! Thats why you can't give her the freaking snickers bar! Dd does not like cake, if you try to give it to her she will yell "no" and push it away, we do not give treats, food is food so we have always foods and sometimes foods. Stick you're treat up your nose or ill show u how mean I can really be.
-random family friends "dont be stupid, pregnant women can eat whatever they want"
I don't even bother with an answer anymore I just say "its my body and if I want to put healthy food into it then thats not your business". I also want to poke my tongue out.
Do you get these types of comments?
What would you LOVE to say to those willy heads?
OOOHHH... INTERNET FIGHT. WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO? CAPS LOCK ME TOO DEATH?
(Noddy's not fat ffs!)