*sigh* i just need someone decent for me and my boy.
Tips? Need a womans help.
chalys 'n' J wrote:
I don't think you should have to 'try'. Why don't you head out for some fun with mates, if you meet someone on one of those outings then that's great. I'm a big believer that things that are meant to be will happen.
And on another note about the trying thing... Everyone male that I know says they never got any attention when they were single, it was when they got married or in a serious relationship that suddenly girls were approaching them. This is because women always go for the challenge. You can spot the single guy a mile off.... Walk into a bar and what I see is single men and taken men... The single ones lean on the bar with their body turned so they can scope the rest of the room. Every time someone walks in they look up with hopeful eyes to check out the chick. The taken man can be seen back turned to the room having a great laugh with his mates. It's nothing to do with a ring on the finger... It's all to do with the body language.
So go out, forget about women & have a good time - it'll happen!! smile
Hope that helps... Us women are rather particular and will usually brush a man off if he makes the first move.
Matey, be yourself. Don't try to be something you are not. Dress & act as you would normally. The attraction is you, as a person, not the clothes, car you drive etc. Or maybe I am too old to be advising. LOL. Get to know someone as a friend before things go further. Anyone who looks at you for your clothes, car, money is not worth it, in my experience & opinion. And you have a young man to think about. Take things slow & steady. smile
Have you never met up with others happyhead?! I have met a few people off here. I wouldn't give out my address and have them come here or anything but to organise to be at the same playground at the same time with the kids (when there are others around) is it really such an issue?!
Deano, I agree with the others about being yourself etc. I disagree with chalys in that I wouldn't make the first move (too shy) and go talk to a random guy but if someone started to talk to me I would possibly take it further if that makes sense. I haven't been in the dating game for a long while now and I had my dd really young so never really did the clubs etc but happy to talk and offer support even if I can't advise. smile
OOOHHH... INTERNET FIGHT. WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO? CAPS LOCK ME TOO DEATH?
(Noddy's not fat ffs!)
Yes I think it is an issue... you know nothing about this person, you said yourself you are looking to meet someone special and suggest a "playdate" with a wink.
Desperate or what and involving your kids, what if this guy is a physco or a paedophile - oh that's ok there'll be other people around.
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