..Chloe..

You doing alright love???

Your comment freaked me out abit in the other thread sad

xoxoxoxoxo

Same here Dazzler..

Chloe..please dont put yourself down hun sad
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Same here Dazzler..

Chloe..please dont put yourself down hun sad
xx

What Jas said hun...

You shouldn't put yourself down like that..You are SUCH a beautiful, unique individual.

What Jas said hun...

You shouldn't put yourself down like that..You are SUCH a beautiful, unique individual.

I totally agree with you.

Chloe i tried to pm you, for some reason it didn't work.

You seem like a great person and please stop saying your not.

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You not worthless and anything else he called you.

You have beautiful kids who do need you.

There is a great guy out there just waiting to meet you who will treat you like his queen. When your ready he will find you.

I wish i could give you a hug and say everything will get better and you be on top of the world again.

Sorry, should of kept my thoughts to myself.
No i am not doing great.
I am pretty sick of all these bad things happening to me.

I should not be feeling sorry for myself i know, but i cant help it.

And the phone call from my ex a while ago didnt help i suppose.
He said he never loved me and i was worthless and Useless and selfish.

My fathers Alzeimers, my mums been sick, my dog dying and countless other things.

I am just about done. Cant take much more.
Again sorry for being such a loser.

I dont think im much use to anyone at the moment.

ah man chloe come on don't say that..

i can completely understand what you are saying though hun and I know what your feeling, what your going through..and ally ou want to do is give because what's the point? no one cares?

we care hun!!! and you definately not a loser, look at all that you have gone through and you STILL come out on top. Your ex doesn't deserve you and you deserve so much better so what he thinks..just doesn't matter. I know it's easier said than done but I know you are strong smile

By the way love you have a right to feel sorry for yourself, you have a right to grieve..we are all always here for you!

Chloe I am really sorry about all the s*&^ things life has given you recently.

I know its easy to say but please try and keep your chin up and you are NOT a loser.

Agree with these girls hun - sorry I put my 'uplifting' comments in your other thread - should have put them here. smile

Big loves to you.

I have learned through life that when we get something thrown at us... if we climb above it we only get taller and stronger each time. As long as we learn from our past, and use it to go onwards and upwards, then we don't need to have regrets. Yes, things hurt at the time. They are meant to. This is what makes us become beautiful spirited people that are wise and kind to others. It's times like these that you have to make a conscious effort to concentrate on the positive things in your life - like what a fantastic mummy you are and how much your children love you and need you.

Things WILL get better. You just have to believe it will, and believe in yourself and your ability to acheive anything. How many times do we tell ourselves we can't do something? I used to tell myself that - and in the last few years have thrown that idea out the window. I believe I CAN achieve anything that I want to, I can become anything I want to, I can obtain anything that I set my heart on because I am strong. I have been pleasantly surprised at how life will make way for the things you need when you just believe in yourself.

Chin up, sorry I wrote another story book yet again - I hope tomorrow is a better day and you have plenty of chocolate for today. smile

xxxxx

He should look at himself in the mirror!..he definately doesnt deserve you..your too good for him wink
Im sorry your feeling down hun and I really do hope things look bright again. *GBH*

Oh and one more thing (I'm sorry!!!!!)

When people say awful things, it is due to the issues they have within themselves. It's amazing how when someone says "I've never loved you", it actually means "I used to love you with everything".

The only reason someone says that is because they're trying to convince themselves, and cause you some hurt as though they're proving it to themselves.

Now you don't need to dwell on thinking that your ex used to love you, I know that doesn't help... but sometimes it helps to take the hurt away a bit when you understand the reasons behind why people say and do hurtful things.

He has big issues mate, and probably a lot of guilt which he is not owning, therefore resulting in his own misery and negativity.

Thanks girls for your kind thoughts.
I am sorry once again for being so down.

I just need to do some soul searching and try and think what i like about myself.
At the moment i cant think of much.
But anyway sorry again i think i will leave for a while.
Thanks everyone for being so kind.
And chalys ... smile xxxxxx