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Expert panel: Toddler

Introducing discipline and bringing home a new baby are areas of concern for many parents of toddlers. If you need advice in helping your child navigate the toddler years you can ask your question here and have it answered by one of our childhood experts. Or, take a look at our previously answered questions, you might just find the answer you were looking for.

Please note questions are not answered live. If you are at all concerned about your health or your bubs contact your doctor immediately.

Questions about Toddler

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Jane ...
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This could just be a matter of maturity and association. He has learnt how to avoid using the toilet at home, but to use it at other places. Most ...

Answered: 17 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, If you have no reason to believe he should be frightened of his cot, he has always been safe in there and no harm has come to him, then this c...

Answered: 17 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, This is difficult to stop, albeit impossible. Babies have always chewed on their cots and when lead was a component of paint, it was a real pr...

Answered: 17 Apr 2010
Avatar Schtephy
Jane ...
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Hi, Although this can be an irritating stage, in some ways it is also very reassuring. She has learnt that you will provide her with what she needs...

Answered: 17 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi Sophie, Aren’t you a loving auntie? To be honest I’m not able to answer your question with any certainty, but you could contact our...

Answered: 11 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, At 3.5 she is old enough to describe her feelings and use words which accurately convey how she is feeling. This is in some respects, a good th...

Answered: 11 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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No, It’s not that “bad” but in terms of increasing the risk of tooth decay it is risky. Prolonged bottle use can also delay the d...

Answered: 05 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, This is such a common concern for parents, but toddlers don’t seem to mind in the slightest. To be honest, I wouldn’t worry too mu...

Answered: 11 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, At 11 months she is still too little and her brain too immature to change what she is doing because of your reaction. She sees something she wa...

Answered: 11 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, Fibre, water and exercise all influence the consistency of bowel motions. The ideal consistency is pasty or semi solid, if her poos are dry an...

Answered: 05 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, This is a fairly common and completely normal behaviour in toddlers. They experiment and play with lots of things and haven’t yet learned...

Answered: 05 Apr 2010
Avatar Mima
Jane ...
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The first thing to check is if he is well and thriving, happy and active and tracking along his percentile (growth) charts. To do this you will nee...

Answered: 22 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, Children of two need at least 3 serves of milk/dairy a day. Up until 2 years full cream milk is recommended but after this age, one of the red...

Answered: 28 Mar 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, Speech and language are similar to many other forms of development and are under the influence of multiple factors. Environment, gender, indivi...

Answered: 28 Mar 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, This is a common issue for parents but one which does pass. You are right when you say she is probably forgetting and busy, which is why you ma...

Answered: 17 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, The general recommendation around transitioning from a cot to a bed is 2 years. Once the horizontal cot rail is at chest height or lower it be...

Answered: 05 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi Leonie, Just the fact that you are asking this question indicates that your boy will be fine. You are obviously a caring and devoted mother. Gi...

Answered: 28 Mar 2010
Avatar Gibblet
Jane ...
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Hi, You don’t say how old she is but I’m guessing she’s still a little young to train. Toilet training is only successful if a ch...

Answered: 28 Mar 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, It sounds like he has developed a close association not only with your presence, but your hair as well. He is unlikely to change his current be...

Answered: 28 Mar 2010
Avatar LeahG
Jane ...
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There are a few ways you can do this. Either cease all bottles both day and night and only offer him a cup. Deal with his protests by ignoring, dis...

Answered: 05 Jun 2011
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Leann...
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Hi there, it can be a tricky thing when a toddler or preschooler gets stuck on milk or formula, it is a bit of a catch-22 in that you want them to ...

Answered: 15 Mar 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, This must be very concerning for you. I assume you have spoken with his carers and sought their advice on how to manage this? For him to not ...

Answered: 11 Mar 2010
Avatar nlc81
Jane ...
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To be honest, you probably can’t. She is likely to be doing this in a deep sleep phase which is completely out of her control and she sinR...

Answered: 05 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi, Some toddlers are very active when they sleep and there is little, if anything you can do about this. Any device which limits a child’s m...

Answered: 05 Apr 2010
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Jane ...
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Hi Not that I’m aware of. The risk with covering it is that in an emergency, it needs to be clearly visible and accessible. Check with your s...

Answered: 05 Apr 2010
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Sally...
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Hi, Oh dear, that certainly does pose a challenge for you (although I would see that as a wonderful excuse never to do dishes!!!). Since your so...

Answered: 22 Dec 2007
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Sally...
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Hi Stacey, Thanks for raising this issue. Very young babies think that if they cannot see something, it no longer exists. As babies start getti...

Answered: 22 Dec 2007
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Sally...
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Hi, thanks for your email. Please read the response for the previous question or go to my parenting website www.parentsonline.com.au for further...

Answered: 22 Dec 2007
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Sally...
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Hi Sally, I appreciate your email. It sounds like you have a strong and determined young daughter who is trying to gain your attention. It is i...

Answered: 22 Dec 2007
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Sally...
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Hi Hiria, Thanks for your email. Your daughter sounds like a high-spirited and determined young lady which is a terrific quality, but can be cha...

Answered: 22 Dec 2007

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