I don't think anyone was implying that. From what ive read people have been suggesting ways to continue BF if she still felt like she wanted too as many women give up too soon due to lack of information. But FF mums take that as insulting to them and that BF mums are trying to be all pretentious. The fact is BF is better for bubs, it's a fact and that is why it can be worth trying to overcome problems in the early days. But FF is the 2nd best or plan B option and if that is what a mum wants to do then she shouldn't feel guilty, sometimes there is no other choice. I think your post is kinda trying to start an argument here, pushing people into BF or FF sides. Only you make yourself feel like sh!t for your decisions.
i quoted and was refering only to what OC1246 was saying. please read it and then tell me your interpretation of it.
no i only feel like sh!t if i make a decision and then people second guess it and try to tell me the alternative is better.
The day i broke up with normal was the first day of my magical life...