Thanx Megan for your feedback. I actually found it encouraging to have a mum encourage me to persevere in resettling Rachel (our now 6.5 wk old) in her own bed. We also came home from a week at Karitane yesterday, and while there is a fair bit of improvement, part of the reason why she has been (and still is to a smaller degree) unsettled is because she has a bad case of reflux and she needs thickener (and sometimes Mylanta) to help ease the burning and stop the projectile vomiting. We fell into the trap of cuddling to sleep, going in as soon as she made a noise and putting in the dummy, etc., but we're back on track and I now feel more confident as a mother. Until her system matures, she'll still be unsettled, though, so we'll just have to hang in there and, as you said, persevere.
Angela (a vomity-smelling mum!)