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I am really sorry to know about your situation. You must have had a tough time. Don’t lose hope, sweetheart. Life has put you in a test. Try to pass the exam with good marks. Have firm faith in God. I have had surrogacy too. I had lost all my hopes when I could not conceive naturally. I am a victim of PCOS. I have consulted my doctors in Ukraine. They suggested me for surrogacy. I am so happy to have my own baby. It was a wonderful experience. Surrogacy is truly a blessing in disguise. You must give it a try to. All the very best to you. stay safe.
Hi sweetie, hope you are doing fine. Please don't feel so bad about all this. No doubt this is a tough phase but everything passes. the good and the bad. I can totally understand you. I had gone through this situation 3 years ago. I was so depressed about that. I had almost thought of forgetting the idea of having a child. it was my husband who supported me and held my hopes high. I am blessed with a baby boy now. I wish that you become a mother soon. good luck!
Hi Martha! How are you? Hope you are in good health. Don’t be so frustrated. You have to keep calm and keep on facing what life throws at you. I can understand you regret. Infertility is a very heavy burden to bear and 3 years is a lot of time for TTC. I am sorry you had to go through this but there is still hope. I am recommending you this because it is something that I have also experienced and my recommendation to you is that you should go for surrogacy. I am also infertile and went for it. I am happy to tell you that I am now a mother of a baby girl. Everyone deserves to be a parent and we should be open to try alternative methods for that. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy and recommend you do the same. All the best to you.
Hi. This brought tears to my eyes too. Virtual hugs for you. I feel really sorry for you. Don't get upset. Why are you blaming yourself? You don't have any fault in this. This is life. Three years is not a much time. Wait for the right time. You are lucky. You have a supportive husband. He loves you so much. Did you go to the doctor? What did he say? If not, to be on the safe side, have a check-up. I hope everything is going to be positive.
I hope things are good at your end. This is heartbreaking. Abortions are always hard. You must have thought wisely about them. Don't regret your decisions now. What has happened has happened. You can't bring those moments back. TTC for no long with no luck is tough. Don't get worried. Jealousy is common in such circumstances. I pray that everything goes well at your side. Why don't you try for surrogacy? It has a very good success rate. This way you can have your own biological child. Sending my prayers and wishes for you.
This is so terrible. I can't even imagine how someone can survive in such a situation. You're strong that you admitted and shared everything here. These forums are made to help you after all. What you did to yourself was very wrong. I agree with that completely. But since you admit it, there's no use to scold you on that. I hope people can get a lesson from your experience. Everyone needs to stop considering abortions a joke. It's not a joke at all. The outcomes of such things are not good at all. For now, you should consult your doctor. Share your problems with her. I am hopeful that she'll tell you the right thing to do. Stay strong.
hi, hope so you are doing great. Don't take the stress. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. I think you should go for a checkup. hi, Don't take the stress. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. I think you should go for a checkup. Nowadays infertility is not a big problem. Surrogacy is indeed the best method. IVF is also a good process where children would be genetically linked with you. In Europe, there are best clinics. Which are not so expensive and provide you with a great environment. All the best. Stay happy. Better things will come soon. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. My best wishes are with you. All the very best.
Hey dear. Hope you are fine now. While reading your post I can clearly see you are very depressed. Whatever you have done in past was right at that time. Regret can't do anything now. Stop hurting yourself. It won't do anything well. You will just feel bad. So stay calm. Move on. Stop blaming yourself. Whatever gone will never come back. Stay hopeful. There are many others who are suffering from infertility. Who didn't even had an abortion? So sometimes it happens for no reason. So be positive. Good luck.
Hey dear. Hope you are fine now. While reading your post I can clearly see you are very depressed. Whatever you have done in past was right at that time. Regret can't do anything now. Stop hurting yourself. It won't do anything well. You will just feel bad. So stay calm. Move on. Stop blaming yourself. Whatever gone will never come back. Stay hopeful. There are many others who are suffering from infertility. Who didn't even had an abortion? So sometimes it happens for no reason. So be positive. Good luck.
Dear depressive, I have all my sympathies with you. You are not having an easy time. Any intended mom gets worried when the things are getting out of the hands. Your wait is becoming intense. The most integral thing in the life of a couple is conception. They desire for having a baby of their own. It is something that they cannot compromise on. For the last three years, you are looking for the rainbow. This is a sad thing. This does not mean that there is something disappointing for you. I have met people who have struggled hard in their journey of TTC. It some times takes years to reach the destination. I have always seen that people got the parenthood after several years of trial. Just check for some medical advice. A good doctor can make a difference in your life. A proper diagnosis and treatment are a must. One the problem is figured out the solution becomes possible. There is nothing to lose heart. Stay optimistic and peaceful. Think positively and you will see the life-changing. I will wait for the good news from your side. Keep posting about your experiences. It would be helpful for many others too.
Dear Martads! How are you? Hope so you will be fine. I just read your post. I really felt so sad to know about your miscarriages. But don't worry. Such ups and downs are the part of life. I think you should go for surrogacy. I hope it will be good for you.
I feel so sad to read all this. I can't even imagine how you would have coped with all this. It's good that you admitted that it's your fault. You did not try to hide anything. These forums are made to help you after all. You did injustice to yourself. I agree with that completely. But since you admitted it, no one should blame you anymore. You've realized your mistake. I hope people can get a lesson from your experience. Everyone needs to stop take abortions so lightly. It is a very sensitive matter. The outcomes of such things are not good at all. For now, you should consult your doctor. Share your problems with her. I am hopeful that she'll tell you the right thing to do. Wish you best of luck. Much love for you.
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