I am lucky enough to be pregnant with my second child (EDD 16/9/06 its a girl) and my sister in law is pregnant aswell, she is due in july and she is having a boy.
My SIL really wanted a girl as she has a boy already and since I found out I was having a girl she has acted really distant/nasty towards me.
I am worried that not only will she resent my child, im also worried that she will turn everything into a competition between our children because they will be so close together.
I think what also put her nose out of joint was that our MIL and FIL were coming down for the birth of her child in july. But when I announced I was pregnant and due in September they decided that they would all come down in december and see everybody at once.
Im just worried that she is upset with me because I may have stolen her thunder? How should I cope with this?
Lydia, mum to beautiful april + girl due 16th sept