my daughter is absolutely killing me. I don't know how I get through a day with out losing my cool. She lies & even knowing I WILL smack her. she rolls her eyes, she cant follow simply instructions like plz tidy your room or when you waik up make your bed and start getting ready so I don't have to fricken yell and scream and threaten to smack her the whole fricken hour until I drop her off to school..... it takes me hours to calm down and then before I know it im picking her up again only to deal with the afternoon garbadge with her.
Shes behind at school, she is ALWAYS getting in trouble off her father and I daily every single day several times a day.
Ive spoken to the school nothing has been done all year. I don't know what else to try with this girl.
weve done time out confiscation smacking grounding from going places etc
She is making me very very unhappy and angry ALL the time. m 2yr old starts yelling too when ever we now chastise her or even speak to her sternly . So I NEED to DESPERASTLY make changes before he too feels aggressive from watcvhing me get mad at his sister.
More so I need to some how make her stop her shit and just be a pleasant child to live with she makes me so mad it makes me cry for feeling the way I do towards her.
I love her and would protect her with my life but something has to change and give and it has to be her?
any advice please any thing to help ;(