I have noticed that sometimes when I have written a very long reply, the message has gone to the moderator too. I'm not sure, but I think they might have a length thing too. Or if you've mentioned a web address...I think that could send it off to the moderator too...and yes, as Tepe said, certain words trigger the message for a trip to the moderator too....but sometimes you do wonder what you said that could be so bad!!! smile
I still think the moderator is good, even if it is a bit annoying...it makes sure the huggies forums are kept reasonably clean.
Don't worry, your posts do come through after awhile. And...it happens to everyone!! wink so don't think you're alone in this!