Ok VERY long story but Ill give the short version.
Df had a relationship prior to us meeting which was quite brief approx 4 mths. The girl would go out leaving Df with her young son, come home and shower before even picking up her son for a cuddle. The broke up after she hit her son in front of Df.
Fast forward and she tells him she is 5mths pregnant but its not his. Then the story is it is his. We meet in the middle of all this and I fall rather quickly with Moo. The child is born and its a girl. She demands $$ off him to see the baby and tells him she is definately his daughter. He asks for DNA she refuses.
DHS intervene and remove the children from her care. We offer to take the child and then back out after hearing rumours that the child has Hepatitis C (since told this is untrue) I give birth to Moo soon after.
A mth passes and we see the ex and her mother at the shops and ask for a DNA test. Again nothing is done. We ask DHS about it and they say that the mother has to agree to it.
We get mouthed at and dirty looks everytime we see the ex or anyone associated with her.
Fast forward to November 07 and the ex gets hold of my msn addy and has a heated conversation with me. I again ask for DNA and she tells me she has done her part but still now 10mths later NOTHING.
Today we run into the Aunt of the alledged daughter and she mouths off and again we ask for the DNA test to be done. She claims that the child is identical to DF and thats how she knows he is the father. Funnily enough there are similarites but the child is almost identical to her siblings so are they saying DF fathered them all??
The child will be 4 in June 09 and to me that tells me that the mother knows the DNA will come back Negative.
Im just over it all and nothing short of kidnapping the child to have her dna tested will solve this issue which by the way we do not plan on doing. Im just so frustrated and at my wits end.
Df had a relationship prior to us meeting which was quite brief approx 4 mths. The girl would go out leaving Df with her young son, come home and shower before even picking up her son for a cuddle. The broke up after she hit her son in front of Df.
Fast forward and she tells him she is 5mths pregnant but its not his. Then the story is it is his. We meet in the middle of all this and I fall rather quickly with Moo. The child is born and its a girl. She demands $$ off him to see the baby and tells him she is definately his daughter. He asks for DNA she refuses.
DHS intervene and remove the children from her care. We offer to take the child and then back out after hearing rumours that the child has Hepatitis C (since told this is untrue) I give birth to Moo soon after.
A mth passes and we see the ex and her mother at the shops and ask for a DNA test. Again nothing is done. We ask DHS about it and they say that the mother has to agree to it.
We get mouthed at and dirty looks everytime we see the ex or anyone associated with her.
Fast forward to November 07 and the ex gets hold of my msn addy and has a heated conversation with me. I again ask for DNA and she tells me she has done her part but still now 10mths later NOTHING.
Today we run into the Aunt of the alledged daughter and she mouths off and again we ask for the DNA test to be done. She claims that the child is identical to DF and thats how she knows he is the father. Funnily enough there are similarites but the child is almost identical to her siblings so are they saying DF fathered them all??
The child will be 4 in June 09 and to me that tells me that the mother knows the DNA will come back Negative.
Im just over it all and nothing short of kidnapping the child to have her dna tested will solve this issue which by the way we do not plan on doing. Im just so frustrated and at my wits end.