My rules are that when they are asleep that people are quiet. Now i know you can't be totally quiet but i don't like yelling or banging when my kids are asleep. My youngest is a very light sleep & he slowly getting better but he hears noise or anything he thinks he missing out on something.
I know he has to get use to noise but i think it's repectful of guests to lower their tone in voice.
My other rule is other kids aren't aloud to walk into my kids rooms when they are asleep.
So do you have rules and what happens when someone breaks them when they come over.
Just this thing with my sil, has got me thinking that people have lost respect for others wishes in their homes.
My sil doesn't have respect for us has parents & thinks that she has a right to do what ever in my home.