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When Jack was 8 months old I enrolled him in day-care so I could return to the workforce as a working mum. I remember turning up for his first day and being shocked at how many lotions and potions were kept up on the shelf behind the head teacher’s desk. Each labeled with a different child’s name and instructions.

“Goodness,” I remarked to the Head Teacher, “surely they shouldn’t even be attending day care if they are sick enough to need medicine?”

She raised her eyebrows in silent agreement and muttered, “I couldn’t agree more.”

I was enraged. Their children would be affecting my children in being allowed to attend whilst obviously still riddled with bugs.

Sure enough, Week 2 saw Jack come down with his first sickness bug and I understood why my father-in-law insisted in calling day-care ‘the petri dish’. As the weeks went on, I started to also realize my initial naivety. Jack came down with every bug going – at one point every week for a straight 8 weeks we got phone-calls from day-care for some thing or another…vomiting, diarrhea, chesty coughs, green snotty noses…but, oh my goodness, I had work…I couldn’t keep taking time off like this.

It became a case of hard negotiation with my husband. On a typical day, the mobile would ring (by that point I knew the number by heart), on taking the call and establishing the cause of this particular reason to have to pick Jack up early, I would then call my husband and we would negotiate based on whose day at work was the most important.

For instance, on one occasion I called Hubbie to tell him that one of us needed to pick up Jack, to which he replied: “But I’m about to go into a meeting.” “But so am I,” I replied, “is yours an external or an internal meeting?” “Internal,” he replied haltingly. “Hah! Mine’s external!” I triumphed, “Your turn!”

Every call from day-care resulted in a similar conversation. I realised why stressed-out parents would ‘pretend’ their child was better and force them to go back earlier than perhaps they would be ready.
Years later I am still in the same position. When your child is sick all they want is for you to nurture them, to hold them and comfort them. And you want to do that too. But, if you are working or juggling other commitments then you need to do some serious reorganising too.

Last week, Jack was sick again. This time he was 6 years old (not 6 months) but he was pale, eyes sunken, washed out, feverish and just wanting to be cuddled by mum and dad. John and I took it in turns. John took Day one at home and was able to reorganise his work to the following day. I took Day two (I got the better end of the bargain as the vomiting had stopped by then). Technology allowed me to Skype in to a meeting and do much of my work from a laptop at home. By Day 3 he was better and able to return to school. We were lucky – it was just a bug and only lasted a couple of days. But it is a juggle and I know many a parent who has forced her sick child back to school probably earlier than they should have because of busy lives.

So, these are the rules:

1. Sickness and diarrhea mean a child should not come into contact with other people for at least 48 hours from their last bout of illness.
2. Green snot means they have an infection – keep them at home.
3. Chesty coughs are contagious for the first 48hrs.
4. Teach your child to cover their mouths after coughing (cough into arms), to sneeze into hankies and tissues – not into hands, to wash their hands regularly.
5. Wipe down and disinfect surfaces, phones, door handles and any other regularly touched surfaces as often as possible.

Authored by Jacqui Lockington, owner of blog If Only They Told Me.

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Avatar Huggies Editor



surely they shouldn’t even be attending day care if they are sick enough to need medicine?

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Posted 13 August 2013 - 02:18 PM

Avatar Bevsgurl

My seven year old got a throat infection he was off school for a week, which was a bit longer than his antibiotics lasted.

Posted 13 August 2013 - 04:32 PM

Avatar OC1246

what about the onset of cold like symptoms. So many diseases start with this, but generally people automatically assume its a cold. You can have clear snot to begin with and be super contagious for something like chicken pox or whooping cough...

Posted 14 August 2013 - 11:45 AM

Avatar OC1246

PurpleUnicorn wrote:
If the child's not contagious i don't see why they shouldn't go to daycare


this part i think has more to do with bodies needing time to heal. It takes time to recover from being sick - even after the symptoms have stopped. If they don't get the rest they need, they get the next bug that they is going around and you have to do the whole thing all over again!

that being said I'd rather risk my job and keep my son at home daycare workers have enough to do with our nursing everyone's sick kids.
+1

Posted 14 August 2013 - 11:49 AM

Avatar Kaibush89

Daycare takes proper care of each and every child. Without having second thought you can send your child to daycare. http://www.koolchart.com

Posted 24 October 2013 - 10:50 PM

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