Hi Alex, my question is am i going to be okay ? im four and a half months pregnant with my first and im starting to feel really scared. i dont know if im going to have everything organised or not and im really worried i wont be a good mum. sometimes i dont feel like this and im excited, but most of the time im really scared. but i look at so many mums and think, well they did so why cant i ? is this normal to be wondering if im doing the right thing ? i hate even thinking it, i feel like a bad mum for wondering. please help, i havent got anyone to ask ... thankyou !