Obviously I wouldn't make the list "You MUST buy one of these things for Connor", rather I'd label it "Gift suggestion list" to just give people a general idea of what Connor needs and maybe add a footnote "Connor already has lots and lots of stuffed teddys, so it would be appreciated if none were purchased for Connor please"
I dunno, I just know Connor is going to get spoiled like crazy for his first birthday. He's the first Grandchild, great grandchild to both my family and my partners family. He's also the first nephew to my sister and all 4 of my partners sisters, lol.
Does it seem tacky/rude or demanding? I'd rather Connor not get a bunch of stuff I would end up just having to donate because we really don't have the space for more stuffed toys and stuff.