I found that the last few weeks during my pregnancy my midwives were giving me various options with how to have the birth however each one of them seemed to push towards one way or another, I am not sure whether this comes from past experience or personal opinion however we already have enough going on in our minds to have to deal with feeling like we are not doing something properly for the midwife we have.
I also had the same experience with the nurses once I had my baby, some would tell you to do one thing while others would tell you not to, for example bottle feeding and dummies. I felt this was also their own personal opinion and not something you need pushed on you when you already want to do everything as naturally as possible, unfortunately there are hurdles and obstacles with every child and we need to take measures to suit the conditions.
I feel there should be a procedure that midwives and nurses have to follow so they are not pushing their own ideas onto you, one that gives you choices without leading you in a particular direction.
Has anyone else had the same bad experiences?
I also had the same experience with the nurses once I had my baby, some would tell you to do one thing while others would tell you not to, for example bottle feeding and dummies. I felt this was also their own personal opinion and not something you need pushed on you when you already want to do everything as naturally as possible, unfortunately there are hurdles and obstacles with every child and we need to take measures to suit the conditions.
I feel there should be a procedure that midwives and nurses have to follow so they are not pushing their own ideas onto you, one that gives you choices without leading you in a particular direction.
Has anyone else had the same bad experiences?