I have 10mnth twin boys and both with different personalities. I tried to get a routine happening but it was hard and stressful. So I decided to go with the flow and what the boys wanted and we were all much happier. As they are eating solids well they I stick to breakfast between 7-8am and dinner is at 5pm. Lunch and other snacks in between when they tell me they are hungry. But at least we have breakfast and dinner rountines. It does make going out hard having to pack solids and bottles. When I know I am going out I always pack the bag the night before straight after the boys have gone done and then I relax for the evening. Then in the morning all I have to do is get everyone ready and with the bag packed it is one less thing to worry about on the day.