Hi Teenys Mummy,
It isn't a silly question, I had a boy for my first so the midwives had to show me too!
They said don't pull the foreskin back, just wash the area as if the foreskin isn't there. That is how I do it and my DS hasn't had any trouble at all. It will come back on it's own when it is supposed to, usually in the bath when your DS is playing with it! And he will!! My DS found his when he was 6 months old.
I didn't realise they started so young smile
I think it actually comes back between 12 months and 3 years old. Not sure exactly. Maybe you could ask your community nurse? If you find out when, can you let us know?
Hope this helped!
Elle, DS: Kai 20/11/04 & DS: Jamie 13/02/07