well i really need to get this out its been getting to me for a few weeks so here goes
my partners sisters wedding was a few weeks ago i was happily sitting eating my desert when my partners mum was talking to one of the family friend as the family friend turned and said
"oh look i think he would love some ice cream (to my son)" i looked up and said NO he doesnt like anything sweet so my guess is he will not like it and i dont really want him to have any at this age! then to my shock my partners mum after hearing me say this she takes out my sons dummy and puts it in her ice cream!!!!
one thing i have been told not to put anything sweet on the dummy! grr she knows i dont like it i have told her so many times and now she finally did it ! grrr ..
peter my son pulled a face he wasnt to happy with the sweet ice cream but the the worse of it all happened next ..!! he started crying so i went and got the dummy washed by boiling water cooled it and gave it to him well he screamed to high heavens and pushed it away !!! i re washed it over and over again hoping he would take it all night he wouldnt take that dummy he was turned off it all night he was crying for it...
it ended up being a hard night! he got so tired as he will not sleep without it so me trying to get him to sleep in the pram WITHOUT the dummy was not working i got a taxi home with peter and left my partner there as he was happily drinking.. it makes me so angry thinking about it still she heard me say it, she knows not to do it!
after all that we did get there in the end and had a good sleep. it would be good if they realise that i know my child alot better then anyone else!
mum of peter 25/12/04