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You are not alone. My son is 6 months old and we've only had sex 3 times since he was born plus not much during my pregnancy.
But it wasn't all me, when I was pregnant my husband was afraid he would hurt the baby and he also felt uncomfortable like it was wrong (even though its not, but thats how he felt).
Now that bubs has arrived the only opportunities when it presents are usually late at night and we're both usually tired, plus we were never sure how much sleep we were going to get so we usually chose sleep over sex.
You might be surprised that your husband is less rampant about sex as well. On Dr Phil today he was actually discussing things about how to increase a womans desire for sex and it was as simple as the man helping out more around the house. Holding her hand, opening doors, just good old fashioned romance.
If you're weird about this then there are a lot of weirdos out there.
Kristy

member since 2004

HAHAHHAHAHA Kristy, U make me laugh.... good ol' Dr Phil!!!!
I must admit, I'm a tad looked on the guy too, he makes sense!

Kerryn, SA, baby girl 20/11/03

How good is Doctor Phil. I love him, I wish he would come to Aus.

I may sound sour at the moment but don't let your husband, partner, other half, etc go without for too long. Most will stray. Ok yours isn't, I'm sure we all know someone who thought the same thing. Porn is the beginning and it is not acceptable, unless your watching together. My other half did the same and boy did he know about it, it still comes up. I just want you all to be careful because men are visual, women are emotional.

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Leah

Baby: Jessika

Hi all,

Well I am the other way around. I want it more now that I have had our baby daughter and even when I was pregnant I still wanted to have sex more. How Bizzare I want sex more than my husband does sad My daughter was born 12 weeks early and now is 4 and a half months old. The thing is that I can't find time to be alone with hubby becasue he works from 6am to 5pm and then when Siobhan has her last feed for the night around 10pm my hubby is tired and falls asleep on the couch:-(
Hi Mummybrain - I am interested to hear what your naturopath has been doing/prescribing/recommending to you in relation to this topic? Would you care to share it with us perhaps?
Thanking you.

Linda (Jessica 3/4/03, Caleb 11/4/05)

hi guys
this may sound realy gross but does anyone else have a problem with receving oral sex as my fiance just has given up and he used to be wild! once again i apologise for sayin it but i am really worried that there is something wrong with me i dont like sorry ill rephrase i HATE giving it but that neva used to be an issue until now

DD may 03, DS oct 06

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