I feel like family is too helpful and not too helpful. I have a 4 and a half month old baby. He is my first. My parents and mother n law always tell me what to do, especially my father. They seem to think that I'm not experienced and I don't know what to do, so they keep on telling me what they think that's best for my son. There's always comparisons, such as my child did this and they weren't like yours. Sometimes they make me feel so low and useless. I never get praises from anybody, just critisicm. I don't want to crack at them, but I come to the stage that I just snap and tell them let me do it my way. Could anyone please reply and let me know what yoyr experiences are and how can I make things better for my family and myself.