it's such an adjustment to a relationship having a child. i remember when bella was first born my husband was still living his normal life and i felt like i was caged in at home alone. it was like your life hasnt change at all. we communicated and talked heaps and as i was more positive, going for a walk every day and swimming a few nights a week, he was more supportive. we now work really well as a team.
i remember saying to him "im sorry i thought we were having a baby, i misunderstood it was just me going through this life change.
definetely talk to someone positive and try and do just one thing a day that will make you feel better.
just take one little step, make a phone call, see your council nurse, join a mothers group, go for a walk or paint your nails. whatever it is that will make you feel better.
there's always someone here to listen
bella, 03/03/04, baby 2 due 07/05/05