How old is too old to rock to sleep?

It is beautiful to have you precious baby go to sleep in your arms, so why not do that now and again! I usually wrap Deb, put my hand on her chest and say goodnight and tell her that I am in the next room - I am not deserting her. Babies understand so much more than we give them credit for. Jen

Thankyou Toni,

Your post helped me in many ways, I have gone off the controlled crying method (only lasted one night!) and going with my instinct instead, you are right for they are only little once and it is lovely they want you for cuddles.

I found the "pick up put down method" posts helpful too and now feel so much better about the whole sleeping thing.

All the best to you and Virginia Rose,